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Often this involves speaking with the man's sexual partner also. But yeah guys beware of the mountain biking. Apply Maca Lepidium Meyenii Maca is a u herb that helps boost sexual desire in men. Older people's relationships are 'juicier' Professor Imelda Whelehan, an expert on ageing and popular culture at the Australian National University, thinks the trend has resulted in part from the realisation, on behalf of media gatekeepers, that older viewers want to see their experiences reflected back at them. If one has ED one should be seeing a doctor for a whole lot more than a prescription for ED. Journal of pharmaceutical and biomedical analysis. But surprisingly, it is anxiety and stress that are most commonly to blame for a man's inability to sustain an erection. I've dated men with ED and it is no big deal dating with erectile dysfunction me. Unfortunately I never regained my former potency. You may not be able to achieve orgasm and ejaculation. Although he lied to me and said he didn't have problems, when he did have jesus, his attitude was completely different.
I have ED the specifics of which I detail below. My questions are do you think it's possible to have a relationship with a man who suffers from impotency? I would be willing to do whatever I could to please a woman go down on her, use toys etc but sometimes I wonder if I can really have a good relationship without a fully functioning penis. I am not coming on here to get sympathy. My friends say that many women will look past ED but I don't believe it. I want to hear from women what they really think. Keep in mind I am single, so I think its different then when a couple stays together after 15-20 years of marriage. I am 28 years old. When I was 23 I had a relationship end that had lasted 5 years. When we broke up I became depressed and was prescribed an SSRI. Unfortunately I never regained my former potency. I thought for a long time that I was suffering from Post SSRI sexual dysfunction, but I went to a specialist who thought it might also be possible that I hurt myself mountain biking. I'll never really know, but what I do know is this. I have reduced sensation in my penis. It's difficult to become aroused. I have difficulty maintaining an erection. I can never get the head of my penis hard, and likely have damage to one of my arteries, but can get the shaft hard with viagra or cialis. I have seen one of the leading specialists in the country and there is not much I can do but use viagra and cock ring. Now this all sucks because otherwise I am a normal and fairly successful 28 year old man. I am decent looking, in good shape, educated and have no problem attracting women. I just don't know what to do. I would love to have a relationship again. I have a fairly normal sex drive, but I will never be very good in bed. I used to be really good in bed, and use to actually annoy my ex with how much I wanted sex and the fact that I was ready all the time. The only treatment that might help is an experimental procedure in Israel that is not even approved in the US yet. But for all I know I may be like this for the rest of my life. Sometimes I feel it is wrong for me to date but I really miss having a relationship. When I am dating I also don't know how to bring this up, but its not like I can hide it forever. Also I feel like without the same degree of lust the relationship doesn't feel as natural. I don't know if it applies to you but it's worth checking out. As to your question, there are many ways a man can please a woman physically. I would be disappointed that I couldn't return the favor but I wouldn't let that stop me from having a serious relationship with you. Jessica I looked up the doctor you are speaking about. I do think the fact that I have anxiety over my issue causes it to be worse, but I don't think it is causative for my problem for two reasons. Not once in 5 years, even with the help of viagra or cialis. It is good to know that some women would be willing to work with me. Hopefully this will help me. Even with my ED problem though I can still enjoy sex, just not as much as before. I can still ejaculate, its just more difficult and it might be difficult for me to maintain an erection long enough for penetrative sex. Just to warn you.. Some women won't look past it. My friend was seeing this guy AWESOME guy, I still hang out with him occasionally and when they tried to have sex, he couldn't get it up. He told her it's an anxiety thing for him, he has to know someone really well first. She tried a few more times, couldn't deal and bailed. I think women who aren't shallow and are actually looking for a meaningful relationship with you will work with it. If you have some help from a ring and viagra then that's good, but it might have to be that you'll have to discuss it before you have sex. Just to warn you.. Some women won't look past it. My friend was seeing this guy AWESOME guy, I still hang out with him occasionally and when they tried to have sex, he couldn't get it up. He told her it's an anxiety thing for him, he has to know someone really well first. She tried a few more times, couldn't deal and bailed. I think women who aren't shallow and are actually looking for a meaningful relationship with you will work with it. If you have some help from a ring and viagra then that's good, but it might have to be that you'll have to discuss it before you have sex. Yeah that is understandable. I don't want a woman to have to deal with it. Honestly I wish it would just go away, but sadly that is not the case. People vary a lot in their sexual needs and I fully expect that some women will not deal with it. I kind of wish people would give me honest answers. I just want to get an idea what percentage I am looking at you know, 50% reject me for it, 10%, 90%? I really don't know. But yeah it sucks, no guy should have to deal with this and no woman either but I guess its just one of those unfortunate things that can happen to people. At least I don't have cancer, or HIV, or any of a number of things that are arguably worse, I have to remind myself of that. I've dated men with ED and it is no big deal for me. Honestly, I think it will wholly and entirely be dependent on the type of woman you attract and can hold. Some of us understand that life gets in the way of our desires but there are always work-arounds. For me, the guy I dated had to use injections to get an erection; he learned to inject himself before we were intimate and it was never fully erect. But the emotional connection was more important to me and he did please me in other ways so I was not that concerned as long as he was happy. We broke up for entirely different reasons, not having to do with sex. Other medicines cause low sexual function, especially the anti-psychotics. The injury you mentioned is far more likely to be the culprit. You're young and you're recovery capacity should be excellent. I've treated it with saw palmetto and beta sitosterol and it's fine now. Scuba, I'm sure this is a difficult thing for you, especially to have it in your 20's. I have to be honest and say that for me, it would be a deal breaker. Sex penetration is pretty important for me. And I think for many women. However, I think the kind of woman that would be most compatible with you would be a woman with a somewhat low libido. That would take the pressure off of you. That doesn't mean she would necessarily not ever want sex, but not as often as average. Get to know a woman first before bringing this up and if she likes you for who you are, and if she doesn't have a high libido I think you'll have better chances of success. Most women wouldn't care at all. The fact that you have difficulty getting aroused means you don't want sex as much right? Most women would see that as a GOOD thing And that you have difficulty maintaining an erection means that it will be hard for you to have penetrative sex right? That's also a GOOD thing to most women. This might sound weird but the problems that you have is not actually a problem at all. Most women wished they had a man who couldn't have sex for one reason or another. Yet another incarnation of wayne brady. How many is this now, your eight identity? Scuba, I'm sure this is a difficult thing for you, especially to have it in your 20's. I have to be honest and say that for me, it would be a deal breaker. Sex penetration is pretty important for me. And I think for many women. However, I think the kind of woman that would be most compatible with you would be a woman with a somewhat low libido. That would take the pressure off of you. That doesn't mean she would necessarily not ever want sex, but not as often as average. Get to know a woman first before bringing this up and if she likes you for who you are, and if she doesn't have a high libido I think you'll have better chances of success. Believe me if I could do anything to fix it I would but it is not so easy. But yeah I wouldn't want to take away a woman's chance a good sex or just have her cheat on me later. She would have to be happy with me. I wouldn't want to force anyone to do something that wouldn't make them happy. The annoying thing is my libido is still pretty strong, my equipment just doesn't cooperate. Thanks for the honest reply. Other medicines cause low sexual function, especially the anti-psychotics. The injury you mentioned is far more likely to be the culprit. You're young and you're recovery capacity should be excellent. I've treated it with saw palmetto and beta sitosterol and it's fine now. I have definitely reduced my biking. I also bought this special bike seat that the doctor says won't put as much stress on that area. I am not sure this forum allows links but here it is. I'd recommend any man who wants to avoid my problem buy a seat like this or something similar one without a nose. Believe me I never thought this would happen to me. But yes I try to reduce my cycling. I even bought a skateboard to commute rather than on my bike. It takes longer but hey no pressure there is a good thing. I wonder if there is a chance saw palmetto would work for this. Probably not but its worth a try I suppose. The problem is it has a decent failure rate, and can sometimes make things worse. With PDE5 inhibitors I can get the shaft decently erect. I am hopeful that perhaps this new shockwave therapy being pioneered in Israel will be available here soon. I actually work in biological research and so I downloaded the research papers and read them. I've even considered going over there. Its a lot less invasive than surgery. I am surprised but I don't think a stint or angioplasty exists for this. Why not I do not know. It seems logical enough to me but although I am a researcher my speciality is genetics and not specifically medicine so I do not know. But yeah guys beware of the mountain biking. I never thought I'd have this problem. Believe me I used to be super potent. Guess I was just unlucky. If you continue biking at least do yourself a favor and get one of those funny looking seats. They may not be cool but believe me ED is way less cool. I've dated men with ED and it is no big deal for me. Honestly, I think it will wholly and entirely be dependent on the type of woman you attract and can hold. Some of us understand that life gets in the way of our desires but there are always work-arounds. For me, the guy I dated had to use injections to get an erection; he learned to inject himself before we were intimate and it was never fully erect. But the emotional connection was more important to me and he did please me in other ways so I was not that concerned as long as he was happy. We broke up for entirely different reasons, not having to do with sex. I am glad to know it will not be a deal breaker for everyone. I guess I will just have to go by a case by case basis and remember its not about who I am as a person if I get rejected, but rather about the others sexual needs. I'm sure you can find a woman who will love you for who you are on the inside first and foremost, and work with you in getting a sex life that can be satisfactory as best it can be with your condition. In other words, I am very optimistic for you. You are going to have to shop around though when looking for a potential long term partner, and be willing to risk some rejection, before you find the woman who will be right for you in life. Cultivate a positive attitude I think you already have one and DON'T let rejection from some women bring you down. That means, HANG IN THERE on your journey to finding someone. Don't let rejections bring you to a halt in finding someone. Start by looking for NON-SHALLOW women. This is your best bet. I think you have a few more options than just Viagra and a cock ring. Since the head of your penis doesn't get hard but the shaft does, and since you are able to ejaculate, you really have quite a bit going for you. Your willingness to use toys on her if she wants shows you are very open minded and your ego isn't getting in the way of a good time for you both. The fact you like to give oral sex is a mighty big plus for you as well. Have you ever seen a French Tickler? It's a condom with a plastic piece attached on the end, usually firm plastic in some rounded shape I've seen them in all sorts of interesting shapes and configurations. This hard piece on the end, might replace the lack of firmness you have in your own penis head. So that is another idea besides just a cock ring. And then I've seen on some sex toy websites, all other varieties of devices that can be worn over the shaft to add firmness and support to a penis that can't get entirely hard on it's own. Not to mention this would add dimension width to your shaft. Not that you necessarily need that, but just saying that it would. So it seems that you probably have alot of choices in sexual aids that can enhance the erection you already get with Viagra. The market for this 'erection aid devices' is huge, and there are probably new inventions and arrivals on the scene on a very frequent basis out there. You need to stay tuned to what's out there as far as erection aid devices are concerned. Put on your thinking cap and invent some erection device aid yourself. Necessity is the mother of invention you know. The sky is the limit nowadays with the internet helping anyone make an idea become reality. Then you'll be a millionaire from your idea, and have a great erection to boot. I'm getting a little silly here but you get the picture. So, I think your prognosis for a lifetime of sexual and relationship happiness, even as your condition is RIGHT NOW, is very good with the right lady. Just find one with a heart of gold who loves you for you, and not your penis. I bet she will be willing to work with you in the long run so everyone can be a happy camper in bed and out. It's all about your attitude, is the bottom line.
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